Tamar Braxton got pretty candid about the reason her marriage to Vincent Herbert came to an end on Instagram a few days after she filed for divorce, sharing a since deleted post in which she seemed to tell fans her marriage became more about keeping up the façade of happiness. "Sometimes we stay 'married' for face value or to say 'we did it' but the truth is...it couldn't be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!...even on an anniversary!," she wrote, per Essence, explaining she decided to stay with Herbert for as long as she did but eventually realized she wasn't winning by keeping herself in an unhappy situation. "I decided I didn't want to be married for the sake of saying so. I wanted to have a relationship. Someone to share my/our dreams, our successes, our failures, our past, present & future with...& not finding out s**t online...some of us have been living a LIE!," she added.
Fans saw their friction play out on their reality show "Tamar & Vince," while she opened up a little more to "The View" in February 2018. "It was just to a point where I felt like divorce was the only option that I had left," she explained, revealing that they started going to counselling together but it wasn't enough to save their relationship. Tamar said they decided to go their separate ways to create a healthier environment for their son, Logan.
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